Manners – Mom Approved

Say, "Yes Ma'am, No Ma'am, Please and Thank You!" Growing up, our mothers instilled these simple manners into our little brains. Now that you have grown up and are an active member of the "adult rat race," don't forget these simple social pleasantries.  

The current atmosphere of high tech and social media is devoid of manners, so it is easy to forget when the world around you doesn't encourage simply being polite. Deep down, you know these social rules, so bring these "mom approved" manners to your interview:

1. Arrive on time. Your interview is scheduled for a reason. Honor your given time by arriving at least 10 minutes early. It is believed that persons who are chronically late are subconsciously attempting to maintain control over a situation. You DO NOT control the interview. The employer does, so show them the respect they are due.

2. Dress appropriately. You have done your homework on the in's and out's of the prospective company, so know the companies dress culture and then dress one level above it for the interview. Simple make-up, hair and jewelry – as well as modest clothing – is a must. Gentlemen, shine those shoes and iron that shirt. Leave the cologne and perfume for date night. Many people are allergic to scents, so don't be the one causing the interviewer to start sneezing – or worse!

3. Turn your phone off. In fact, don't even take it out. How embarrassing would it be if your suggestive Drake rap song started blaring during your interview?

4. A firm handshake. We all know what it's like to get the limp, wet fish handshake! Ugh! Medium pressure only and with confidence, and make sure you look your interviewer in the eye.

5. Please and thank you. Thank them for the interview in person after it is completed, and then send them a thank you note. (Remember after Christmas? When your mother made you write those thank you notes?) Nowadays, in this tech driven world, an email thank you is permissible – but a hand-written thank you is optimal. To take the time and write a thank you that is received by mail (with a real stamp) is special and the interviewer will remember you for this simple act.

These are very easy and simple polite principles that you already know. Now go make your momma proud!